The ABBA songs ended. No more ABBA and no more sugar in the Hook household.
Hook is convinced I’m obsessed with sugar and I’m convinced he has selective hearing. At his final appointment with the surgeon last week, Hook mentioned to the doctor that he’d had a glass of wine the other night.
The surgeon said, “That’s great you’re able to enjoy wine again.”
Hook interpreted this to mean that he should be drinking wine, that he should be drinking it every evening in fact. He’d stopped at the store on the way home from the doctor’s office and picked up a bottle of pinot noir along with a bucket of ice cream. There was an assortment of real food stuffed in the grocery bags like cereal and vegetables but I was convinced that was just to throw me off the wine and the ice cream. I watched Hook unpack the Pinot as I tried to stare a hole into the bottle. When I saw the vanilla bean ice cream, I couldn’t keep quiet any longer.
“You bought ice cream.” I said as I tried not to lunge for the Texas-sized bucket of frozen sugar-in-a-box so I could flush it down the toilet.
“[He] said it was a good way to put on weight.” Hook replied.
The surgeon had also remarked on Hook’s ability to eat ice cream especially since he was worried he wasn’t retaining enough calories. Hook understood that he should be eating ice cream every day. He feels certain that that is what the surgeon meant. I had to wonder what language they were speaking until I remembered that my husband only spoke English and then sometimes not even that language. I hadn’t met Hook at this last appointment because I thought it was just a routine visit. I didn’t know the surgeon was going to be mind-fooding my husband into believing he could eat and drink anything he wanted.
Is Sugar Evil?
I’m not a sugar nazi. Really, I’m not, but in addition to agreeing that no one deserves cancer can we all also agree that processed sugar is neither necessary nor healthy for the body? Even though Hook desperately needs to gain weight, there have to be better ways to do so than through ice cream and wine. Hook is and has always been a healthy eater so I do not begrudge him these small pleasures. Instead, it’s my fear of sugar and how it interacts with those unfriendly C-cells of his that may still be lurking in his body.
Whether sugar is the evil of all cancer is still up for debate. A layman like me gets confused with all the conflicting information from doctors and nutritionists and whatever else is floating around the web:
- Some might say, I should listen to the holistic, wellness guru of an unknown, unverifiable website: Holistic Website Here
- Others of you might think that the Mayo Clinic remains the voice of reason, except their own comments on sugar and cancer are also without author. For all I know, some pro-cancer freak hacked their system to write, “Sugar doesn’t make cancer grow faster.” Random, unidentifiable articles on a Reputable Website Here.
- Or worse, the renowned MD Anderson Cancer Center which says it’s okay to eat sugar so long as it’s not more than “six teaspoons per day.” Do you think that’s a typo and they meant per hour? If not, we’re all in trouble: Scary Sugar Website Here.
If you’re wondering, ‘Why do you care? Didn’t they remove the cancer?’
We don’t know. We expect to find out on Monday the 18th when we meet with the fist-bumping oncologist to review the CAT scans taken last week.
I asked Hook if he wanted to comment on this blog since I felt we had differing opinions on the sugar topic.
“We agree on what to eat.” He said.
“We do?” I asked, an incredulous tone obvious in my voice.
I could hear him sigh from the other room as he answered, “Yes! Why do you keep asking?”
“Because you keep eating processed sugar?” I hope that was the right answer. It feels like it was.
I’ve never bore children but something tells me these circular conversations might sound familiar to some of you moms out there. Who am I kidding. Anyone in a relationship has had these conversations, has these conversations, is probably having these conversations as you read.
My vote is this: Cancer or no cancer, stay away from sugar. Six teaspoons a day? Talk about sugar nazis.